Forgiving someone who has hurt you is actually a selfish act rather than a selfless one. Letting go of the hatred that you may have allowed to bottle up inside you is actually something you do for yourself rather than for the benefit of the other person. When you bear a grudge against someone it is almost as if you carry that person around your back.
He drains you of your energy, enthusiasm, and peace of mind. But the moment you forgive him, you get him off your back and you can move on with the rest of your life. Forgiveness is a great act of spirit and personal courage. It is also one of best ways to elevate the quality of your life.
I have discovered that every minute you devote to thinking about someone who has wronged you is a minute you have stolen from other much worthier pursuit.....
1 comment:
it is indeed a quality which very few people posses. But before that we need to decide weather whatever cause somebody's is punished was that worth. A lot of time we decide and act first then think later......love all hate none......
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