The reality of relationship is that not every relationship will turn into a lasting and meaningful relationship. In fact every relationship won’t work out until you find the one that does. That’s how life works. There are no shortcuts or loopholes and absolutely everyone is in the same boat as you.
Being into a relationship was never meant to be a tortuous obstacle course that you had to suffer through, when it doesn’t work out. It was one of the most well structured, well thought out things that our generation inherited. How we managed to f*#K that one up is a mystery? As a result a lot of unhappy and unclear people are in complete disharmony with their romantic universe.
Women always have and will continue to date a man’s potential instead of reality. It’s in a woman’s nature to be hopeful and to see the possibilities, the greatness that people possess. Dating someone potential is probably the biggest mistake women make in a relationships and certainly the one that leads to romantic downfall.
More often than not, dating a man’s potential is the long road to disaster. If you can love who he is now and not have your attraction be based on who he might become then you’re in good shape. If you’re not, well then you best keep looking because most people have different aspirations than you might have for them. There are things in life you can change …but there is one thing you cannot change and that is other people.
End of the day it all boils down to the choices that you make in life!!
Saturday, February 7, 2009
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4 comments:
NICE INSIGHT !! GOOD POST !!
Thanks :)
people who travel this jourmey keep different speed limits.. High speed chooses somethings at cost of someone. Average speed fails to strike a balance but enjoys the road. Slow ones keeps a deep memory and die without uttering. End of the journey they all of them realize that whatever speed they were...........they lost the moments which could be cherished only thatt moment.
True to some extent...!
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